Pasadena
Presbyterian Church "Choose Life" Scripture: Luke 7:11-17 Soon
afterwards he went to a town called Nain, and his disciples and a large
crowd went with him. 12 As he approached the gate of the town, a man who had
died was being carried out. He was his mother's only son, and she was a
widow; and with her was a large crowd from the town. 13 When the Lord saw
her, he had compassion for her and said to her, "Do not weep.” 14
Then he came forward and touched the bier, and the bearers stood still. And
he said, "Young man, I say to you, rise!” 15 The dead man sat up and
began to speak, and Jesus gave him to his mother. 16 Fear seized all of
them; and they glorified God, saying, "A great prophet has risen among
us!” and "God has looked favorably on his people!” 17 This word
about him spread throughout Judea and all the surrounding country. Death: it’s probably the most avoided topic in our society. We insulate ourselves from it. We pretend it will never happen and are often shocked when it does. We professionalize the handling of it and invent all kinds of euphemisms to inure us from its reality. What used to be called “undertakers” and “morticians” are now called “funeral directors.” We used to “die” now we “pass.” Even our government contributes to the denial of death by blocking television access to images of flag-draped coffins exiting C-130s as our own sons and daughters come home. Four or five generations ago, death was understood to be a natural part of life. People usually died at home. Now, we rarely do. Today, if our young children and grandchildren encounter death it may only be through pets dying, rarely people. I regularly encounter people in their twenties and thirties who have never been to a funeral. There is nothing more helpless and awkward than a group of college-age students contending with the loss of a contemporary having been so insulated and isolated from death’s reality by a culture of denial. When loss does come the shock is palpable; the struggle to find meaning so primitive. The ubiquitous “I never thought it could happen” is so telling. We live in a culture that denies death, yet the last time I checked the mortality rate is the same as it was in Biblical times: 100%. I am convinced that the avoidance of death in our culture harms our mental health, makes our grieving more entangled and confusing, and exposes how we’ve lost the gracious art of how simply to be with people who are dying or with people who are grieving. The bright point in our
culture is the church, synagogue and temple, the intimate community we have
as brothers and sisters together in one family of faith.
For those of us who have made this community and others like it
central to the rhythms and habits of our life, death, while hardly ordinary,
is not the paralyzing power it can be for others.
Thank God. When I
contrast church folk encountering death and loss with people who do so
without a community of faith, I must say I cannot imagine how life could be
possible without this type of loving community.
For those bereft of such community, I simply cannot fathom how others
make it when death comes. Today, we’re going to look
at this brief passage from the Gospel of Luke where Jesus faces death head
on. And, in another example of Biblical reversal and paradox,
when death is faced, life is affirmed. Jesus and his disciples have been traveling across Palestine, making their way to Jerusalem. The day before, Jesus had miraculously healed the Centurion soldier’s slave. Today, he and his entourage come across a funeral procession while they are traveling through the town of Nain. To come upon a funeral procession would not have been unusual, but ordinary. The relegation of “arrangements” to funeral directors would not occur for another nineteen centuries. Instead, the whole extended family or clan would be engaged. Women relatives would wash the body. Male relatives would carry the body. Some wept on behalf of others, keening it’s called, a form of wailing that expresses the depths of communal grief. Jesus and his disciples came
upon the funeral procession and the expectation would have been to stay
back, not only to be respectful, but to keep a ritually pure distance
between them and a passing corpse. That’s
not what happened. Jesus looks at the woman who is walking beside the corpse
being carried and rather than keeping distance he is moved deeply to
compassion and he goes to her. The
original Greek uses the word
σπλαγχνίςομαι
splagcnizomai to describe the
visceral nature of Jesus’ compassion. Splagcnizomai
literally means compassion from one’s intestines, from the gut. Jesus had gut-wrenching compassion for the dead man’s
mother. I had been a pastor a little over a year when I first experienced the intense grief of a parent losing a child. Bob and Liz had two children. Doug, their son, was twenty-two and recently licensed as an electrician when he fell to his death while working on a high transmission tower. The raw emptiness of losing your child is some of the deepest pain imaginable. I facilitated a grief group in our church in Dayton and the grief that Liz brought to that group was excruciating. Yet every week she showed up. Often she was unable to talk but she showed up time after time and that little group of the broken and the grieving, meeting in the library of Westminster Church week after week, somehow brought her back to life. Jesus, with gut-wrenching compassion, looks upon the widow whose only son is now dead and he crosses over the barrier of religious scruple, of ritual purity law and he goes to her. He’s not so much focused on the corpse as the living widow. This widow, bereft of a husband and now losing her only son, had just lost her only means of income. She lost her breadwinner, her Social Security, and the only way to participate in the economy. She was burying the one who would take care of her in her old age. Mothers aren’t supposed to bury their sons. Sons are supposed to bury their mothers. With gut-wrenching
compassion and with the full power of God in him, he says to the woman
“Don’t cry.” He touches
the coffin and speaks, “Young man, I say to you, get up.”
The son arose and Jesus gives him back to his mother.
He resuscitates the son—he also resuscitates the mother, the widow.
He gives her life back. He
gives life to the living and the dead. What does this miracle story
have to tell us about death and its avoidance, death and its facing, death
and the diminishment of its power to mesmerize and hold us captive?
What does this miracle story tell us about God’s relationship to
the living? The mortality rate, the last time I checked, is the same as in Biblical times: 100%. Yet there is good news here. The Gospel lesson leads us to confront death, stare it in the face, and reengage in the consideration of life. Unequivocally, the message of the entire Biblical witness, the grace imbedded in our faith, is that God ultimately is not interested in death. Death is a power, for sure, but it is a defeated power. God is interested in bringing life, new life to God’s people. In the creation story, God breathes life (ruah) into chaos and creation and order are born. God breathes spirit into prophets and justice and righteousness are proclaimed and nations totter. God breathes the Holy Spirit into the church at Pentecost and the good news is spread to all peoples. In the same way, Jesus breathed new life into the dead son in the village of Nain, saying, “Young man, I say to you. Arise!” and a widow’s life is restored. He neither avoids death nor seeks insulation from it. He does not let death’s funeral procession go on as though death were in charge, but he breaks through social scruples and faces death squarely and he breaks its grip. He defeats its power. In the end, Jesus’ life and his death will be about one thing: overcoming the power of death and sin and bringing new life. God does not keep children
from dying before their parents. God
does not keep us from killing or violence.
God does not keep us from warfare or greed. God does point us to choose life in all things.
God is for the living and not for the dead.
“So whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord’s” (Romans
14:8). In the words of the Apostle Paul, “I have become absolutely convinced that neither death nor life, neither messenger of heaven nor monarch of earth, neither what happens today nor what may happen tomorrow, neither a power from on high nor a power from below, nor anything else in God’s whole creation has any power to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord” (from Romans 8, Phillips). “I say to you. Arise!” (Luke 7:14b). Amen. (c)
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